Other and more recent writers have discussed sexual abuse in the home or neighborhood at the hands of relatives and or friends and neighbors. Then, too, there is the issue of poverty and its impact on human development and adjustment in every key area of functioning. It has been my good fortune to have worked with a few psychologists, social workers and psychiatrists who are gay.
These are healthy and well adjusted people who are excellent practitioners in the fields of medicine and mental health. In addition, I have had the experience of treating many gay men during my long years as a psychotherapist. These are people who sought treatment for depression and anxiety and, in a few cases, for personality disorders.
In all cases, these were hard working, law-abiding and extremely successful people who were well-adjusted to the fact that they are gay. Among this sample of men I have known as professional colleagues and as patients in my practice, none ever reported making a choice to live a gay life style. Quite to the contrary, most gay men reported experiencing the usual childhood sexual urgings but towards boys rather than girls. In a few cases, the dawning of awareness of sexual preference did not begin until adolescence.
Some of these men made efforts to be heterosexual, dating girls and attempting sexual intercourse with females. In most cases they reported feeling no sense of satisfaction from sexual intercourse and realized they really were gay. In other cases, there was the complete inability to function heterosexually but no difficulty functioning homosexually. However, most of these people liked having women as friends but never made any effort to perform heterosexually because they had no desire to do so.
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In all cases, these men reported the fact that they accepted their homosexuality, had many friends, some had permanent intimate partners and had no wish to become heterosexual. However, everyone agreed that it would be a lot easier to live in the world if they were heterosexual beings. The reason for believing it would be easier to be heterosexual is that gay people must cope with a lot of hostility and prejudice. As a result of everything I have read, learned and experienced as a mental health worker, I long ago concluded that homosexuality is not a matter of choice.
Instead, it seems quite clear to me that there is a combination of genetic and biological factors that cause people to become gay. Choice and willfulness have nothing to do with who does and does not become homosexual. Those who are gay have no more choice over their sexual preferences than those who are heterosexual.
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Need help breaking free from addiction? Who Answers? He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the states Read More The Religious View The question of what causes some people to be gay has been a topic of endless debate among the general public and the mental health community. However, the question remained as to what causes homosexuality? Biological Research Along with the study of genes and chromosomes the environment in the womb of the mother, as well as other prenatal factors, have been studied to understand how it can affect sexual orientation.
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The Environment There is a long list of researchers who have speculated for many years that the environment, as represented by the family and the home, are the key determiners of homosexuality. My Psychotherapeutic Experience It has been my good fortune to have worked with a few psychologists, social workers and psychiatrists who are gay. Thanks for being a part of the TripAdvisor travel community!
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I am amazed that any gay person would even consider visiting such a place with their attitude towards us,there are surely plenty of much less bigoted places to visit where you can be true to yourself rather than hide away as if you are ashamed. I've just read your post and the replies that you have already have, now as much as I appreciate everyone's apprehension and distaste for visiting the UAE specifically Dubai I would say please reconsider.
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I completly get and appreciate how horrific sharia law sounds and as much as I completely dislike the fact that a country could be so back ward in this day and age! There are many positives to visiting. So yes homosexuality is illegal over there but so is unmarried heterosexuals sleeping in the same bed! So yes public shows of affection are not advised and even tho you may see many local males walking around holding hands this doesn't mean that for you holding hands is a go go. To them this is a sign of friendship not partnership or affection.
When I first arrived in Dubai and discovered the extent of the sharia law I was shocked and obviously nervous about being prosecuted for being me! I've spent many years in the closet and I'm not about to go back in for some country with what appear to us as backward laws. That said myself and my partner don't often show public affection so it wasnt really any different to going out back home.
In Abu Dabhi we spent 9 nights at a superb hotel, where the staff were so attentive and friendly and the facilities were beyond luxurie.
So much so we never left the hotel We booked a room with a double bed and were never questioned why. In Dubai we were lucky enough to stay with friends, we were they for 2 weeks and ventured out every single day, we saw all the sights and went on loads of tours visiting local areas such as the old Dubai, we spent hours chilling on the beach we even had a double sun bed and nobody looked at us funny or questioned.
Now here's the thing to remember, the UAE have invested heavily in tourism due to the prospect that the oil which earns their county its money will run out. So it is becoming a tourist hub with many new areas like the Palm and the Dubai Marina being favourites. Words can't explain what it's like to be there as you just have to experience it, the wealth is beyond comprehension! So as people will understandable dismiss visiting this amazing country it is worth it. But what you do have to remember is that you are visiting their country and as we expect visitors to our home countries to have respect for our culture and beliefs the same goes for the UAE.
But that doesn't mean you have to visit with fear for your life.
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We also have friends who are a gay couple and live out there and firstly they love it but also say it's nothing to worry about, there is a growing gay community out there but they just don't flaunt it. Their words not mine "there all at it! We will remove messages or topics that contain objectionable language and images avatars or links to pornography , including but not limited to profanity, obscenity, vulgarity, pornographic literature, racial slurs, hate speech, personal insults, hostile comments and threatening language.
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Jimmy i think you missed the point of the other responses. I dont think people are terribly worried about safety in the UAE i may be wrong but thats not the impression i get , yes you can always hide your true self so as not to draw attention. The issue is the human rights abuses which take place and the principle that you are visiting, and advocating a country where being gay can be a crime.
Hi Jimbo i haven't missed the point, i get that people may not want to travel to a place that discriminates against peoples sexuality i got that from your post regarding ethics of traveling to places such as the UAE, and quite frankly that is fine. My post was aimed at those individuals or couples who have anxieties regarding traveling to the UAE but who still want to travel to the UAE.
Lets face it discrimination and human rights abuse takes place all over the world including within the UK so if everyone who loves to travel were not prepared to travel to a place because of discrimination of any kind they would never travel! Now that may been seen as a flippant response but what I'm trying to say is the world is full of discrimination people shouldn't let that hold them back from traveling to discover new places, it certainly won't stop me and my partner.
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I just think that people should experience cultures before they past judgement. The world is a big place with lots to experience and discover why throw that chance away just because a country is 50 years behind the times. TripAdvisor staff removed this post because it did not meet TripAdvisor's forum guideline with regards to copyright infringement.